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THE POWER OF SILENCE

Be silent In the heat of Anger -


Anger has no home, it's a visitor who will always come and destroy, it devour the weak and make the strong a mere gong, an empty vessel. It a killer and a tormentor, if you give it space to live in you it makes you a living dead and finally makes you lose your value among men  



  • Be silent When you are tempted to tell an outright lie

  • Be silent If your words will damage someone else reputation

  • Be silent If your words will damage a friendship

  • Be silent When you are feeling critical





Be silent When you don't have all the facts-

 fact is a prove to witness, you don't have the fact you keep quiet, you don't have the fact you don't speak of what is not or what you know not, don't try to talk to impress people, keep silent to be respected. When people bring ideas and you have non, keep quiet, your quietness creates awareness and makes you 90percent ahead of others who have spoken because they no not what is inside of you or what you want to alter.


Be silent When you haven't verified the story

verification is what makes science who they are today and it is what makes the world move,you just don't speak of what  you don't know, you speak when you have authentic proof, before a proof comes verification. So take your time and keep silent, keep to yourself verify before you conclude

Be silent If your words will offend a weaker person

you just don't speak of your own interest, great kings speaks to carry their people along but the fool speaks to carry himself along, don't be selfish when speaking, never let ego control you when you speak, if you are opportune to speak on behalf of others, speak in favour of all and not you. Keep silent if your words if it will offend the weak because words can create an everlasting sow  and most times it kills



  • Be silent If your words would convey the wrong impression

  • Be silent If the issue is none of your business -

  • Be silent If you can't say It without screaming it

  • Be silent If you may have to eat your words later

  • Be silent If you have already said it more than one time

Be silent When it is time to listen

don't believe you know all, it is better to listen and learn . "He who takes his time to listen and to learn will surely see others take there time to listen to his teaching"



Be silent If you would be ashamed of your words later - take note of what you say, the words that comes out of the your mouth




Be silent When you are tempted to flatter a wicked person

Be silent When you are supposed to be working instead

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