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PERFECTION IN RELATIONSHIP

NO PERFECT RELATIONSHIP! I REPEAT NOTHING LIKE PERFECTION IN A RELATIONSHIP


Have you ever think deeply about why there was a break up in your past relationships?

 Did u break up with your  spouse or they broke up with you?

 Did you ever think if the fault is from you and not from them?

 Do you overlook there mistakes,  if not all the time but at least sometimes?

 How many times has you spouse tell you, the word " I'm sorry "when he/she is wrong, and how many times has he/she tell you I'm sorry  when they know and you know for certain that they where  not wrong?
How many times have you acknowledged him/her when they do little things to surprise you, just to put a smile on your face?
How many times have you tell him/her sorry even when you know is your spouse is wrong ?
How many times have you  praise you spouse when you know he/she is weak?
How many time have you embrace your spouse even when they are totally mad at you and out of control?
How many times have you, praise them in there absence .
Can you stand amidst the crowd and tell your spouse how much you trust him/her and why you love them?
  • Are you proud of you lady/man?
  • Do you trust your relationship?
  • Do you trust yourself?


 If the answer is false, I pray you to flee away from such life style ..   A relationship can't be perfect but can be balanced, *perfection* is from God but *balance* is from humanity.

 Why don't you go back to your spouse now and tell  him/her that " baby I know you have wronged me and I have wronged you too, I know we are from a different background with different home training, which I know for certain that there will be contradictions and between us because we are not perfect. I know you love me sincerely and you know how much I love you. IT'S TAKES TWO TO TANGLE, but before it tangles, it must pass through some process and challenges. I'm sorry forever pain I may have put you through. My reactions was shown only because I love you and I have no means to make you understand.

 Please love me for who I am. I'm sorry once again

 If you can't say this, that means you are full, filled and fool of your own self. You know not what you want and you are too young for a relationship. You need to go back home to mama and learn all over again. If you can't say this, then you are full of pride and you can't be a good father or mother with a good example and of good discipline to your children.
I encourage you today to make your relationship work, it's not to be one side of for you own interest along, it has to be for both sides..

 REMEMBER, RELATIONSHIP CAN NOT BE PERFECT BUT COULD BE BALANCED.
Thinking is one of the hardest thing to do. To some, it's just like wasting ones time, but you have to remember that the more you work your brain the more it gives you result.

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